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MYSPACE: A Must Read for All

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Quigley_Sharps, Aug 8, 2007.

  1. Quigley_Sharps

    Quigley_Sharps The Badministrator Administrator Founding Member

    Everyone please share this with others and your kids.

    MYSPACE: A Must Read for All


    After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get on-line. She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked her Buddy List and saw GoTo123 was on. She sent him an instant message:

    Hi. I'm glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today. It was really weird!

    LOL You watch too much TV. Why would someone be following you?
    Don't you live in a safe neighborhood?

    Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz' I didn't see anybody when I looked out.

    Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven't done that have you?

    Of course not. I'm not stupid you know.

    Did you have a softball game after school today?

    Yes and we won!!

    That's great! Who did you play?

    We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look like bees. LOL

    What is your team called?

    We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.

    GoTo1 23:
    Did you pitch?

    No I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don't want them mad at me. Bye!

    Catch you later. Bye

    Meanwhile.......GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.

    Her name: Shannon
    Birthday: Jan. 3, 1985
    Age: 13
    State where she lived: North Carolina

    Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall. Besides this information, he knew she lived in Canton because she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton Cats. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eighth grade at the Canton Junior High School . She had told him all this in the conversations they had on- line. He had enough information to find her now.

    Shannon didn't tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ballpark that day. She didn't want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacti ng and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn't be so overprotective.

    By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her.

    Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely.

    He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him. He didn't look scary and she quickly dismissed the sudden fear she had felt.

    After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her.

    Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon 's home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car.

    Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon 's house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.

    Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room.

    "Shannon, come here," her father called. He sounded upset and she couldn't imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.

    "Sit down," her father began, "this man has just told us a most interesting story about you."

    Shannon sat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!

    "Do you know who I am, Shannon ?" the man asked.

    "No," Shannon answered.

    "I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123."

    Shannon was stunned. "That's impossible! GoTo is a kid my age! He's 14. And he lives in Michigan !"

    The man smiled. "I know I told you all that, but it wasn't true. You see, Shannon , there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them. But while others do it to injure kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you. You named the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze."

    Shannon was stunned. "You mean you don't live in Michigan ?"

    He laughed. "No, I live in Raleigh . It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn't it?"

    She nodded.

    "I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn't as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line. The wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and there on-line. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it. I hope you've learned a lesson from this and won't do it again. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?"

    "It's a promise!"

    That night Shannon and her Dad and Mom all knelt down together and thanked God for protecting Shannon from what could have been a tragic situation.
  2. Tracy

    Tracy Insatiably Curious Moderator Founding Member

    Awesome reminder! Thanks for posting!

    Talked to my teen about the dangers of myspace and what I knew just by looking at not only his, but his friends' home pages.

    "Come on, Trac, I mean, really... What are the odds that someone out there's gonna' track us down and do something?"

    :rolleyes:Foolish, foolish youth.
  3. CRC

    CRC Survivor of Tidal Waves | RIP 7-24-2015 Moderator Emeritus Founding Member

    And it goes way deeper than just MySpace....12 yrs ago I was warning my daughter, then 10, about "Teen" chat rooms on AOL...Both AOL and Earthlink had (has?) them...I'm sure every site out there has them now...

    I did the same thing as above...pretended to be a 12 yr old girl and found out where a girl in Jacksonville was going to the movies that night...what movie she was seeing...what time..and what she was wearing...and that her parents were dropping her off...and she would be in the movies with 2 other 13 yr old girls. Alone.

    My daughter was so scared, she never went in any chat room again...

    She used IM and only when she was doing homework with friends she knew ....
  4. sheen_estevez

    sheen_estevez Monkey+++

    One has to be very careful with kids and the internet, my kids are still too small to use chat rooms, but they do play games, and there you also have to be careful, my oldest understands and has done a real good job watching my younger and telling him why he can't give out any of his info, seem to hit home with him more when big brother told him, you know Dad doesn't have a clue what he is talking about foosed But it's not just chat rooms, sites like this, as careful as most of us are if you read back on the post you can put together enough information to figure out who someone is, where they live, what they do for a living, etc. So we all need to remember to be careful, not just our kids
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