Am sorry that your grandchild did not survive, though surviving 6 days after their birth is a testament to your grandchild's fight to live, and also a measure of the care afforded your daughter in law and her child by their medical care provider. As a grandfather of a grandson who died whilst in his teens, I appreciate the devastation that his parents and sibling felt, and all I can say is not to overlook the option of seeking professional support with grief counselling to augment the social networks within their own community. Dealing with grief is a process that takes its own time...eventually the intensity of pain will diminish, if not forgotten. I wish you and your family well in your journeys beyond grief, .