I truly believe that and try to open to lessons to be learned. Hopefully from someone else's mistakes and not mine. Anyway, was watching Craig Ferguson on Netflix last night. He is a smart and funny guy, by the way. And his show was called, "Does This Need to Be Said." The gist of his story is that people, especially online, immediately blurt out whatever crosses their mind without thought to the consequence(s). So his idea, and I agree with him, is that you need to ask yourself three things first. Does this need to be said? Does this need to be said by me? Does this need to be said by me now? So he said it took him three marriages to learn that lesson.